The Distance Between Us: Part Four
Part Four: What Repair Can and Cannot Do Repair is one of the most misunderstood words in estrangement. People hear it and...
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Niki Serravalle
Dr. Niki Serravalle is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, and the founder of the Center for Balanced Living. Her clinical work centers on trauma-informed care, psychological evaluation, and the integration of nature-based and somatic approaches into therapeutic practice. She writes MUSA from her practice in Delaware, where the clinical and the personal continually meet. Her first book, The Stories We Told: The Dance Between a Codependent and a Compulsive Liar, is forthcoming.
Why I Write
In Latin and Italian, Musa is the muse, the figure who animates writing, thinking, and creative work. To write in the company of a muse was to listen carefully and give shape to what mattered most. It was writing with intention. MUSA is where I house my writing, a space where the clinical, the literary, and the personal meet on the page.
The Book
The Stories We Told
The Dance Between a Codependent and a Compulsive Liar
The Stories We Told is the memoir of a clinical psychologist who knew the signs and stayed anyway, a reckoning with love, deception, and the long work of coming home to herself.
Recent Essays
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The Distance Between Us: Part Three
Part Three: The Silence After Being Left When someone you love stops speaking to you, grief and anger are usually there, but...
The Distance Between Us: Part Two
Part Two: What Distance Solves, and What It Does NotI am going to say the thing estrangement advice usually dances around. Cutting...
The Distance Between Us: Part One
The Distance Between UsEstrangement is one of the most common losses almost no one talks about. More than a quarter of adults...
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